I never anticipated that I was going to become a parenting coach… I had been an elementary school teacher since 2010 and never expected a career change...but after COVID, my workplace began to shift to the negative; and instinctually, my priorities began to shift as well. I had a toddler at the time, and I just wanted to be everything to him that my students were missing at home… and I wanted to protect him from what I was experiencing in the school system. So through teary eyes, I resigned from teaching and became a stay-at-home mom and decided to homeschool my son.
I had to change my approach from school-teacher to full-time mom/ homeschool teacher… and it was quite a transition. After 5 months, my son and I finally hit our stride. We became part of 2 homeschool communities and worked out our own rhythm that suited his developmental abilities and challenged him academically. During this time and because of the transition and my deep passion for consciously parenting my son, I decided to embark on parent coaching…first for myself, then for others!
I sought out parent coaching for a specific concern…those toddler meltdowns! I just had such a hard time having developmentally appropriate expectations for my toddler, and even more so, I struggled to regulate myself so that I could regulate him! And while I received so much clarifying support for those, the benefits of coaching have seeped into every corner of my relationship with my son, and it has even delved into my relationship with my spouse.
The changes that were made through coaching for me... my son and I enjoy a totally SECURE ATTACHMENT. My son is not afraid of me...not scared to show me his feelings, not concerned that I will accept him less under undesirable circumstances, not ashamed to come to me with any and all of his thoughts/concerns/opinions. AND HE KNOWS HE WILL BE 100% loved and accepted; and in that security, we are able to have a deeper understanding of each other's needs and able to conquer those meltdowns in a more effective and loving way.
It was easy to decide… I WANT OTHERS TO HAVE THIS! I want other children to have this, all the students I taught and could have taught… I want to make waves through the parenting community so that our children, our students, can love and live unapologetically in this tricky world!
People say the world is tough… and peaceful parenting (aka- gentle parenting, conscious parenting) IS NOT FOR THE FAINT OF HEART! It is a true labor of love…and I fully believe that our students and children deserve nothing less.
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